Charles,
I will presume your coach was set with autostart. I will also presume the reason the generator kicked on was your inverter that handles the circuits described has had a failure, the house batteries lost power due to the loads on them and the generator kicked on.
The inverters have several potential power input failures ranging from the circuit breakers in the electrical panel and the switch on the remote panel to the circuit breakers on the front panel of the inverter itself. It sounds like you either reset or checked it all.
The inverters you have sense incoming shore or generator power and when that power is available they switch via heavy duty Potter Brumfield relays mounted on the front panel to pass shore or generator power through the relay to the circuits you have lost, and to switch the inverter from an inverter to a battery charger. If these relays fail to switch, either due to a failed relay or due to a defective control board your inverter will not function as needed.
This is solely a guess, but since you cannot get 120VAC power to the circuits described either through the inverter via shore power, or through the inverter as an inverter I think you have an inverter that has failed.
Those inverters have reached the point where they are being supported with repair parts, but the manufacturer has attached punishing prices to repair parts. Your choice is clear. Decide if you wish to retain your present inverters (despite the cost probably the cheapest approach) or to spend some serious money to change them out for newer ones, including what ever costs are associated with running wires for remote panels.
We can get into greater detail on this if you wish. See my previous thread about the care and feeding of inverters because it gives a phone number of a guy that can help with repairs or further diagnosis.