Gary,
I'll take a 180 turn here.
If you find a coach you like don't make the decision to walk away from it because of the retarder.
You see how most of us feel, but it does not have to be a show stopper. First of all a retarder works. It assists in braking and it will help control speed going down hill. A Jake allows the driver to be less attentive, but to make a retarder work effectively and not overheat you as the driver has to plan ahead and that is not a bad thing. I get the best compromise by leaving it in the second position and slowing down slightly just before the steep downhill. That keeps the bus going downhill at a reasonable speed and it keeps the temperatures very low.
With a Jake you can be going fairly fast, and put it in the high setting and downshift and it will do a great job and you don't have to worry about it, but these buses are more than just retarders.