Peter, it's all good. I have surrendered to the notion that you are as adamant about your driving technique as I.
I never accelerate off of a dead stop with full throttle. The small ratios in the lower gears combined with excessive throttle position creates much unneeded stress on things. I step into it and the heavier I am the slower I step into it. Usually getting close to the floor around the time it is time to shift.
There are few circumstances when I do use full throttle. If I am passing someone so not to linger or if I'm on the downgrade and know of an approaching hill or if I'm rushing but even then only if I can get the RPM's to go up.
To "hold" the hill is when the RPM's remain neutral at full throttle and to "loose" it they are dropping.
Larry eluded to the reference to the DD manual I only referred to it to strengthen my argument.
A headwind is usually not a problem but strong crosswinds often are. Again I would seek a speed that would allow me to operate with less than full throttle.
I will agree with you on DD's poor choice of terms IF for the general public but I would have to assume that they think they are talking to drivers.