AJ and Darrell,
My brain did not kick in when Darrell mentioned the fix that was made on his coach. Hector and I were PMing this AM and the light came on.
Some coaches have a circuit to engage the brake lights when the Jake or the retarder is in use. When you have either the retarder or the Jake Brake on, and you let off the gas, the retarder or Jake engages and that brings on the stop lights to warn drivers following that you are slowing down.
I have not looked up any electrical diagrams yet, but on my coach for example (a 96 XL shell) relay 76 would be the one to engage the brake lights. This occurs without any use of the foot brake, and Darrells description suggests to me he has an earlier shell than a 96 which uses the black Bosch relays and his uses the P&B style octagon base realys.